everything i'm saying here are just assumptions and pure speculation kasi i don't know any of them personally. alam ko it's not good to make assumptions on people especially if they are negative, but i see a teaching moment here or important life lessons which can significantly improve your life or make you happier in life.
i feel that sarah did nothing wrong when she did not let her mom know about the wedding. i feel that sarah's mom really has a mental illness, and i say this with all due respect. it's also prevalent in my family. mental illness is simply a luck of the draw- something you are born with (genetic), or caused by a traumatic experience. sarah is doing exactly what i recommended in an essay i wrote 20 years ago for my egroups. (no blogs and facebook yet at that time). here's the link: https://ian-crystal.blogspot.com/2011/07/family-conflict-resolution-for-dummies.htm.
sana lahat maging educated about mental illness. i'm sure matteo bridge and his family are good people, but there was no reason for them to get angry at mommy divine. hindi naman siya myembro ng avenger or a person with super powers. THERE IS NOTHING THAT MATEO AND HIS FAMILY WANTS TO DO THAT THEY CAN'T DO BECAUSE MOMMY DIVINE IS PREVENTING THEM. i don't think mommy divine carries a gun and threatens people.
another thing is that mommy divine is sarah's mom. kung mahal nyo si sarah dapat mag pasensya kayo, unless of course if she threatens to hurt you physically. always keep in mind that if you hurt sarah's mom, you are also hurting sarah.
naintindihan ko ang ginawa ni mommy divine kasi sira ulo nga siya eh. pero hindi ko maintindihan bakit nagalit ang buong pamilya ni sir matteo. anong natakotan nila? baka may sasabihin si mommy divine kay sarah tapos bigla nalang sasabi si sarah na, "matteo hiwalay na tayo kasi sabi ng mama ko"? sarah already decided to have the wedding without her mom. that's suppose to be the biggest offense a daughter could do to her mother. that means sarah already knows her mom is mentally ill and won't take anything she says seriously. just let them talk. maybe you just tell sarah that you will just go home and wait for her there. or pull out your iphones and watch mav's phenomenal basketball in youtube to entertain yourself while sarah and her mom talk.
about matteo punching sarah's bodyguard. again, i'm just speculating here because i was not there. it's possible that mommy divine paid the bodyguard to claim that matteo punched him. that's a typical move for people with a mental illness. however, when i read that the employees at the restaurant said they witnessed the punching, i think it's true. i don't think mommy divine can be that savvy to bribe all the employees.
tumatawa talaga ako nung nabasa ko yung article sa philstar na sabi daw ng manager ni matteo na hindi daw totoo na sinuntok ni matteo ang bodyguard. huh? news ba yun? siyempre sasabihin yan ng manager. ang headline dapat is: "employees at the restaurant confirm matteo punched sarah's bodyguard". but why take anything that poor people say seriously? right? credibility does not matter. if you are rich or famous, then people should take anything you say seriously, even if you have no credibility. dibah? REVOLUTHYOON !!!
matteo punched the person who's sole duty and responsibility is to keep the love of his life safe. what? i don't understand. i think the worst thing that sarah's mom and the bodyguard could have done is delay the honeymoon by an hour. alam ko maganda si sarah and if i were in matteo's shoes i also would be very anxious to start the honeymoon. siguro it was just the hormones. but bakit nagalit din ang father ni matteo? sasali ba siya sa honeymoon? hey i don't judge. do whatever makes you happy. wag lang kayong manuntok.
some might think na parang pangit ang ginawa sa bodyguard na nag sue siya kasi it's obvious he wasn't really hurt he looks like the incredible hulk while matteo only looks like a spiderman. spayderman !!! spaydermann. namaligya ug kaka. si spiderman. hala !!! bugno !!! bugno !!! bugno !!! pero sa palagay ko tama ang ginawa sa bodyguard na nag sue siya kasi pera yun eh. maybe pang tuition na yon sa anak niya. your kid's future should always take precedence over those absurd and useless principles.
another advice to sir matteo and other celebrities or politician's whose livelyhood depends on the common folks liking them. never do anything to disrespect poor people. example, i don't know if this is true, but i heard that mar roxas scolded his caddie in public while playing golf.
i also play golf and my caddie also makes mistakes but to me it's stupid for me to scold them. maybe if i teach them something and they keep making the same mistakes then i scold them. but that never really happens. golf is just a game. i'm just there to play while the caddie is there to feed his family. even if i'm a member of the country club, i am aware that what the caddie is doing is way way way more important than what i'm doing.
i think mar is a good person - he is hardworking and honest and very smart. i would still vote for him even now. i don't blame mar roxas and sir matteo for being clueless about the real world. i'm sure if i lived the life that they lived i also would be living in a bubble. i also have my own imperfections way worse than mar roxas' and sir matteo. i'm just like a cockroach compared to them. that's just life. but life is short. we should always try to be happy. and you will be happier if you learn from your mistakes and other people's mistakes. assuming sir matteo bridge really did make a mistake (since i'm just speculating), i hope you learn from his mistake.
matsalams.
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